Frequently
Asked
Questions

  • My screening process is easy, flexible, and should take 1-2 minutes. I ask for:

    1. Phone number, which I will never contact without your permission

    2. Proof of identity or safety in ONE other form. Either:

    • LinkedIn profile with 200+ connections, or

    • Photo of govt-issued ID, or

    • Two references from other providers (names, contact info, and dates you met)

    • Blank email with subject line: Contact Info, sent from your work email account to an unlisted male-name gmail account (which I own and will send after receiving your application).

    These choices are embedded within the form to make it as easy as possible.

  • There’s been an uptick in deposit-scams from Tryst, which has degraded client trust. So for now, I don’t require deposits with new clients for bookings of 4 hours or less. I think it’s not fair to ask of you when I have no social media presence, I admit.

    However, deposit is different from any additional fee for an incall meeting place.

    And for 6 Hrs and longer, and any Fly Me to You dates, I do request a 10% deposit to reserve my time.

  • Cash and BTC are preferred. Unless we've discussed something different, please know I expect my fee to be made in cash in an envelope. If you prefer credit, debit, BTC, or CashApp, let me know ASAP.

    In Private: Please leave your donation on the counter upon arrival.
    In Public: Please place the donation in a book, card, gift bag, or any other creative discreet way.

  • I get it, stuff comes up. If you cancel more than 48 hours ahead of time, I will do my best to put any deposit or meeeting-place fee toward a future booking.

    But please understand if you cancel within 48 to 24 hours of meeting, my cancellation fee is 20% of my rate. And if you cancel within 24 hours of booking, the cancellation fee is 50%. No-show cancellation fee is 100%.

  • I only communicate via well-encrypted messaging, mainly protonmail. After getting to know each other better, we might consider Signal encrypted messenger.

    Every account of mine uses 2FA and unique passwords to protect from hacks and data breaches. I also use a Chromebook for security reasons.

    I move all form submissions to a different unaffiliated account. And, in keeping with data privacy laws, you just have to ask me to delete your info and I will do so.

    I respect your privacy fully and am happy to sign an NDA.

  • For $250, I'll elevate our experience during our time together with massage oil, essential oil diffuser, and a fruit and cheese board. Just let me know ahead of time so I can properly pamper you.

  • On Our First Date: Let me take the lead to start, pretty please! I strongly desire that our connection be genuine and that takes a few minutes for a woman. Although chatting heats up my engine pretty quickly. Feel free to take more initiative as the meeting goes on :)

    Alcohol: I enjoy splitting a bottle of wine or sake! But open and pour with all parties present please.

    Freshening up: Please feel free to refresh yourself, including shower and shave. I don’t “start the clock” until you are ready to sit down with me.

  • My style is sleek yet feminine. If you have any style preferences let me know in your booking form. I have a vast collection of both classic and playful outfits!

    You can also gift me any outfit you’d like me to wear. My measurements are here. I’ll note that I look especially stunning in a balcony bra or demi bra.

  • Aren’t you thoughtful! Tips are unexpected but always appreciated. I prefer to receive tips at the end of an appointment so that I know it’s a true sign of your satisfaction.

    If you prefer to give something tangible, you can see my wishlist. For something smaller, you can’t go wrong with MtG cards, sake, or chocolate :)