Frequently
Asked
Questions

  • My screening process is easy, flexible, and should take 1-2 minutes. I ask for:

    1. Phone number, which I will never contact without your permission

    2. Verification of identity or safety in ONE other form, out of these 4 options:

    • LinkedIn profile with 200+ connections

    • Photo of govt-issued ID

    • Two references from other providers

    • Email sent from your work email account to an unlisted male-name gmail account which I own (I will send when I receive your booking application). Subject line: Contact Info.

    These choices are restated and embedded within the booking application to make it as easy as possible.

  • I understand that it may be hard to trust a provider you have not seen before. Therefore, I am not requesting deposits for bookings with new clients of 6 hours or less.

    However, this is separate from any additional fee for an incall venue (See Pricing page)

    For overnights and longer, and any length Fly Me to You, I do request a 10% deposit to reserve my time.

  • Unless we've discussed something different, please know I expect the remainder of my fee to be made in cash in an envelope. If you prefer credit, debit, BTC, or CashApp, let me know ASAP.

    In Private: Please leave your donation on the counter upon arrival.
    In Public: Please place the donation in a book, card, gift bag, or any other creative discreet way.

  • I get it, stuff comes up. If you cancel more than 48 hours ahead of time, I will do my best to put any deposit toward a future booking.

    But please understand if you cancel within 48 to 24 hours of meeting, my cancellation fee is 40% of my rate. And if you no-show or cancel within 24 hours of meeting, the cancellation fee is 80%. I will have rejected other offers to keep your slot open. Cancellation fees must be paid within 72 hours.

  • I only communicate via well-encrypted messaging, mainly protonmail. After getting to know each other better, we might consider Signal messenger.

    Every account of mine uses 2FA to protect from hacks. Each uses unique passwords so a data breach on one website would not be a concern for others. I use a Chromebook because it is more secure than Macs or PCs.

    I respect your privacy fully and am happy to sign an NDA. If you have other security ideas you’d like me to implement, I’d love to hear them! I’m a bit of a nerd about this.

  • For $200, I'll elevate our experience during our time together (eg, massage oil, essential oil diffuser, wine and cheese spread). Just let me know ahead of time so I can properly pamper you.

  • On Our First Date: Let me take the lead, pretty please! I strongly desire that our connection be genuine and that takes a few minutes for a woman. Although chatting heats up my engine pretty quickly. On future dates or as our time extends, feel free to take the initiative :)

    Drinking: I enjoy splitting a bottle of wine, but the bottle should be opened and poured with all parties present.

    Hygiene: Please feel free to freshen up, including showering. I don’t “start the clock” until you are done.

  • My style is sleek yet feminine. If you have a preference of style or colors, let me know in your booking form. I have a vast collection of both classic and playful lingerie.

    You can also gift me any outfit you’d like me to wear. See my About Me page for my sizes and measurements.

  • You're so thoughtful! Tips are unexpected but always appreciated. I prefer to receive tips at the end of an appointment so that I know it’s a true sign of your satisfaction.

    If you prefer to give something tangible, you can see my wishlist. For something smaller, you can’t go wrong with MtG cards, sake, or chocolate.